10 Dont's Of A Healthy Relationship

Your man loves you – and doesn’t want to hear certain things from you. To keep your relationship healthy and happy, you need to stay away from certain phrases.

Here are ten things ladies should never say to their men:

1. Man up

This emasculating phrase is never, ever appropriate. He is a man. If he’s not meeting your expectations, learn to communicate this clearly and without insult. Moreover if he is not man enough, he won’t ask you out.

2. We need to talk

Yes, you should talk to your man. No, you should not warn him that you need to talk about something yet-to-be-described that will likely be uncomfortable. This phrase is the most likely to shift him into defensive mode. Try a more loving approach and you will surely get better results.

3. Size doesn’t matter

If size doesn’t matter, don’t talk about size. Didn’t u see him as a fat man or too thin for you before you accepted his proposal?

4. Is she prettier than me?

you only hurt your feeling if the question you’re asking him has only one acceptable answer – and if a too-long pause in responding will only feed your insecurities – just trust that his answer would have been the right one and don’t bother to ask it.

5. You’re just like my ex

You don’t want to be compared to his exes, so don’t compare him to yours. Even if he comes out on top, it’s still an awkward comparison. All you need do is to tell him his weak points so you can both tackle it together and remember no man is perfect.

6. Are you really that stupid?

Be careful not to use language that emasculates and belittles your guy, words like “idiot”, “moron”, “disgusting”, “and foolish”. Treat him with respect, even when you’re angry or disappointed.

7. Never mind. I’ll do it myself

Don’t dismiss the offers of help from your man. A common love language is acts of service. Don’t deny him the opportunity to serve you. Sometimes it’s nice to feel needed.

8. I can’t live without you

Use desperate language with caution, and stay clear of phrases that sound clingy in early stages of the relationship. Let him take the lead when it comes to commitment and promises of a future together.

9. I’m not your mother

Keep your mom(s) out of it, unless you’re actually talking about patterns learned from your respective families of origin. You have no right to involve your mother or compare his mother to yourself.

1. Nothing’s wrong

Yes, it is. He can’t read your mind. If something’s wrong, tell him what’s wrong. Once you begin to say nothing is wrong then you begin to hide things from him, just open our hearth and enjoy the free ride of true love.

Recall that jealousy is a natural emotion that we can’t control at times. The feeling isn’t good, but there are certain situations where you need to be jealous in your relationship.
We often get jealous for no reason, but if your partner behaves in a way that causes you to be jealous, don’t feel guilty about expressing your emotions. Good communication is the key to a happy and healthy relationship.